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Saturday, March 10, 2012 @ 10:25 AM
FriendzoneFriend and zone are 2 very different words that are usually NOT used in the same sentence...
Until SOMEONE concocted the monicker: "FRIENDZONE."
What is it?
Is it a cool place to hangout?
Is it a place where BFFs (bestfriends forever) thrive?
Is this an area where you can find well obviously, friends?
One doesn't REALLY even know WHERE, WHEN, or HOW it starts actually.
One JUST GRADUALLY realizes...
AND THAT'S THE MOST PAINFUL PART.
I personally have been in "that zone" all these years.
It just dawned upon me that "the feeling was mutual... the feeling was ONCE mutual."
The guys that I have liked did liked me back too, BUT NOT OF THE SAME INTENSITY.
They would suddenly proclaim things such as:
"Oh she's like a sister to me..."
"She's the bestfriend I could ever have..."
"Uhh.... kumusta kana nga pala?"
In a blink of an eye, everything was then transformed by "SELECTIVE AMNESIA."
His disposition & on how he treats you abruptly changes, faster than you can say "Huh?"
And there you are, suddenly at lost for words. You are caught in severe & yes, heartbreak-inducing shock.
You are now left alone, pondering why it NEVER worked out and on why there was an abrupt change in the first place.
Questions and moments will haunt you in the most inconvenient of times but all of these would still be irrelevant on finding those answers.
Some say that the ONLY way to escape being "friendzoned" was to actually FIND SOMEONE who'll appreciate/love you with the SAME intensity.
Unfortunately, NOT EVERYONE has the privilege to have THAT someone.
So what do those UNFORTUNATE "friendzoned" individuals do?
Just blog about it?